http://sandscommunications.com writing, editing, proofreading and web design services Mon, 31 Oct 2011 22:04:44 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://sandscommunications.com/archives/127 http://sandscommunications.com/archives/127#comments Mon, 19 Nov 2007 03:23:00 +0000 vsands http://vanessasands.wordpress.com/2007/11/18/shes-home/
See, she's 17 1/2 -- a soulful, sensitive, intelligent and beautiful girl who stands at the crossroads between childhood and adulthood. From here on out, everything changes. And from my middle-aged point of view, I know that the rest of life is fraught (or blessed, depending) with change, like a sky's parade of clouds and sun, storms and blue.

She came home today, breathless after her very first weekend away from home without me. After her first plane ride, her first out-of-state college visit. And now there's no going back: She knows.

In one short weekend, she's discovered that the stage on which high-school dramas play out looks very, very small from 35,000 feet in the air. She's learned that her life can take her anywhere, with the right ticket... that education is a multifaceted experience that happens both inside and outside a classroom... that kindness can be found even in a great wide frightening world (thanks to a certain friend's grandma who played a very gracious host)... And most importantly that even as she flies from the nest, the nest stays put. Home is and always will be home, and her family will always be the one constant -- the keeper of histories, the protector of her soul, the solid, unshakeable sanctuary in a world that shifts with the wind.

When the time comes for her to go to college, I will miss her beyond words. But I will relish watching her open her life like a big birthday present, like I've done so many times before.

She is my heart, the tiny baby who changed my life, the little dynamo who knows me, perhaps, better than anyone. So for the time being, I am happy and relieved that she is here, and will be for many months yet. It's easy to talk to her about change. It's much harder to listen.]]> http://sandscommunications.com/archives/127/feed 1 http://sandscommunications.com/archives/122 http://sandscommunications.com/archives/122#comments Tue, 13 Mar 2007 01:41:00 +0000 vsands http://vanessasands.wordpress.com/2007/03/13/todays-inspiration/ William Henry Channing]]> http://sandscommunications.com/archives/122/feed 1