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		<title>Big picture blackout</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2009 20:33:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So the sugar-addicted husband just called from the grocery store. "What do we need to make frosting from scratch?"

Me: "Umm, butter, cocoa, vanilla, confectioner's sugar..."

Him: "Okay, all I need is the sugar. Let's see...generic is only 20 cents less. I'll get the brand name."

Me: "It's the same stuff...get the generic."

Him: "No, I want good stuff. Hey, why does it say 'corn starch' in the ingredients? Isn't corn starch unhealthy? Can't I make frosting without stupid corn starch?"

Me: "<em>Unhealthy</em>?! WHY ARE YOU BAKING A CAKE?"

&lt;shaking head&gt; Some things need no explanation as to why they are just plain goofy.]]></description>
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		<title>Nuts in the tree</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2009 06:06:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.amazon.com/700-Sundays-Billy-Crystal/dp/0446698512%3FSubscriptionId%3D02E5W5871AJF7PMMMS82%26tag%3Dsandscommun-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D0446698512"><img class=" alignleft" style="border: 0pt none; margin: 2px 5px;" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51AcakT0KmL._SL75_.jpg" alt="" width="49" height="75" /></a>I recently had the pleasure of reading Billy Crystal's <a style="&quot;border:none" href="&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0446698512?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=sandscommun-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0446698512&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; src=" target="_blank"><em>700 Sundays</em></a> -- his account of the brilliantly kooky family from which he came. Sometimes side-splittingly funny, sometimes gut-wrenchingly poignant, it reminds me that <em>all</em> families have their stories, and that, as I learned from minoring in psych, "sane" is just a relative term. (Pun not intended.)

My family of origin is no different in that respect. My parents each came from family trees that bore more than a few nuts, and I loved each and every one. Most are gone now: Kind, warm people with ready hugs, open smiles, and quirkiness that makes me laugh out loud to this day. I miss them, and reading Crystal's book makes me want to set down <em>their</em> stories -- so I don't forget, and so that my kids also can know the joy of relatives that make you go "hmm." After all, <em>my</em> little cluster of leaves on the tree is hopelessly normal. At least, that's what <em>I</em> think. That's probably what those other branches of the family tree thought of themselves, too.

So I think I'll add another category here for my own recollections of growing up in the classically dysfunctional Italian-American family of the 1960s and '70s. Stay tuned. Truth is stranger, and often funnier, than fiction.

In the meantime, do read <a style="&quot;border:none" href="&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0446698512?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=sandscommun-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0446698512&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; src=" target="_blank">Crystal's book</a>.]]></description>
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